Hi, I didn't for some reason know how to message you privately. Sorry. But I wanted to say thank you for what you said. It means a lot because strangers don't have to say anything but when they do and it's kind words it helps. No I will make sure he stays out of my life for good. He hurt me way too often and I forgave him just so he wouldn't be angry and hurt me. thank you :)
I’m glad you’ve decided that you deserve better, because you do! I went through a terrible time with someone who treated me badly and I wish someone had stepped in and told me that I needed to walk away. Sometimes people think being supportive just means telling you what might make you feel better, or give you hope for the time being; that doesn’t always help in the long run. Valuing yourself enough to know that no one has the right to treat you like that, and that there’s nothing you could have done to change them, is the greatest gift you can give yourself and your future. Even though I don’t know you, I can tell you that you’re a person worthy of real love and respect. I know that if you get away from this person that you will have the opportunity to find someone else who will give you those things; in the meantime, give them to yourself. I know it’s random, but if you ever need to talk about it, feel free to contact me! I wish you all the best!